The #1 Manifestation Hack That Transformed My Life
It took me Seven Years to discover this manifestation hack! Let me save you the time.
Let’s talk about the power of Being Her!
I have spent years of my life diving into every Abraham, Dolores and Esther Hicks books I could find, devouring every podcast on quantum leaping and the physics behind the Law of Attraction so that I could “perfect” the process and manifest everything I could have ever, possibly, desired. I thought that if I knew everything about the mechanics, I would achieve that dream life in a few weeks, or better yet, overnight like all the Pinterest articles said!
That didn’t happen. And the longer it didn’t happen, the more frustrated I started to get. It seemed like there was a ceiling on what I was able to manifest. No matter what I tried, I just couldn’t break through it.
I manifested a few things here and there, which all kept me going, but nothing considerably remarkable. And then, I eventually hit what felt like rock bottom and a quarter life crisis.
The thing about rock bottom is there’s no where else to go but up – it wasn’t a quarter life crisis, it was actually a quarter life up-level.
I got so sick of sitting on the rock bottom and I knew I had to change something. I looked at what I was doing in life and where my vibration was sitting on a baseline level and I realized – I needed to change.
So I figured out who I wanted to be, where I wanted to go and what I wanted to do.
And I Became Her.
Being Her
There are two key components to the transformation that is “becoming her.”
- Feel the Feelings
- Follow the Breadcrumbs
The “becoming her” step not only took a permanent place in my manifestation process. It quickly became the bulk of my manifestation process.
My Manifestation Process
- Get Clear
- Set Intentions
- Being Her
- Celebrate
To read more about my full manifestation process, click here!
It almost seems to simple when I look at it now, after listening to hours of audio on ‘getting into the vortex’ and ‘healing the subconscious mind.’ From a high, esoteric level those things are all good to know IF you know how to actually implement them. However, I have found that most people teaching manifestation over-complicate it with big, esoteric words and quantum physics and extensive spiritual practices.
Don’t get me wrong, these are all great! But they easily over-complicate the whole process for beginners. Often times, beginners get so wrapped up in reading about talking to your spirit guides and past life regressions, and light language and re-wiring your subconscious beliefs when they weren’t even at that step yet!
A lot of people are like me when I started this journey, and feel like they need to know absolutely everything about The Law of Attraction in order for it to work for you.
This is not true.
Gravity is another Universal Law. We don’t need to know everything about how gravity works in order to use it for our benefit. Like walking, for example. Walking on two legs is basically a series of controlled falling. I definitely wasn’t born with all the knowledge there is to know about gravity. I still use it to my advantage every single day.
The same is true for manifestation. You can understand the basic function of the law and use it more powerfully than you even realize. The moment I simplified the process and implemented the ‘becoming her’ step, things started manifesting almost out of thin air!
I finally broke the ceiling.
Feel the Feelings
There are two things that you need to understand in order for this process to be successful.
- The Universe speaks the language of Vibration and our feelings are the strongest, clearest, vibrations we have direct control over.
- Manifestation is a CO-creation process. Not a wish granting machine. You have to take action and uphold your end of the creation process.
Random Fact about People:
Most of the time we don’t even want the ‘thing’ we are trying manifest or achieve; we want the feelings we think that thing or experience will give us.
In order to tell The Universe what you want, you have to speak in feelings. In order to tell the Universe what you want, you have to feel the feelings that you want to feel when that manifestation is delivered to you.
If you can feel it in your heart, you can hold it in your hand.
How are you supposed to feel the feelings in advance??
In order to become her (the version of you that has everything that you want) you have to start by feeling what she would feel.
Let’s say you want to quit your stressful 9-5 and manifest a life that allows you to be stress-free and engaged/excited when you are working. In order to do that, you need to learn to feel stress free and excited or engaged in your every day life like you were already living in that beach house somewhere.
Find ways that allow you to really experience more moments where you are feeling your ideal feelings!
Examples
- I want to feel stress free? I’m going to work out consistently, practice being in the present moment more often, and take cold showers in the morning to help regulate myself and eliminate stress better.
- I want to feel the freedom of sipping cocktails on a yacht in the summer without a care in the world? Every day, I’d make myself an adrenal mocktail and pretend like I was doing exactly that until my glass was empty.
- I want the luxury of having a stylist? I would pick out all of my outfits for the week and save some hair and make up inspiration on Sundays. That way I didn’t have to get up in the morning every day and spend 15 minutes trying to just decide what might look good. I could grab my outfits and go, fully knowing I’m going to look bomb af.
Do you see what I’m doing here? I’m intentionally creating practices, rituals and environments for myself that set me up to feel my desires before I receive them. I’m intentional about communicating what I want to experience to the Universe. The more you do this, the more you’ll start to believe in yourself and your magic. When you believe that you are this girl who has everything that you want, you start making decisions like THAT girl. You walk into rooms with the confidence of that girl, you interact with others in the energy of that girl.
You ARE that girl.
Follow the Breadcrumbs of Next Steps on your way to Being Her
Remember, the Universe is not just a wish granting machine. You also have to get up and take action and make things happen.
Follow the breadcrumbs of next steps.
It’s not important to understand the big picture how, that will probably change a thousand times before you actually get to your destination. Focus on the next step.
There is always a next step, even if that next step is googling how to get started towards your dreams. Take that next step. Because you will continue to find answers and develop creative solutions to achieve what your ideal life would be like.
A lot of people forget that they need to actually DO the thing. When you’re feeling the feelings of the successful version of you and you’re thinking about things like she would, this step will be far easier than you’re picturing. The breadcrumbs are there, you just need to take the steps and follow them.
Being Her Recap
- Figure out what feelings you want to feel in an ideal world
- Feel those feelings
- Follow the breadcrumbs
This is the entirety of Step 3 in my Manifestation Process and where I spend the most amount of time. Most people won’t see their identity magically transform overnight. It usually happens over a few weeks to a few months depending on how big of a transformation you’re making. Once you shift into this energy, you’ll start to realize how fast manifestations start flowing to you. It truly feels like magic.
Spend your time BEING her. Moving like her. Thinking like her. Feeling like her. Making decisions like her. Taking action like her – and watch what it does for you life.